Tyler Perry: At the Right Time, God Will Reveal You

I recently came across a very enlightening video posted on Facebook by Tyler Perry where he speaks openly about the advantages of not always being in the spotlight. This phenomenal actor, producer, and director explains that "sometimes you're meant to be hidden." Check out the video and see what he means.

I Need to Be Delivered from… (Season of Lent)



For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I want to do, I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do…But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me.

There are many of us who have decided to give up bad habits or something significant to us for the season of Lent. At one time or another during the next 40 days, we are going to encounter struggle with something we decided to sacrifice in hopes of drawing closer to God.

I Don’t Feel Like Praying for Him…or Her. So Now What?

There may be many moments in your days where you honestly can’t bring yourself to pray for your significant other; or someone else you love who seems to stay stagnant no matter how much you talk to God about him…or her.

Every Way of a Man is Right in His Own Eyes

The quality of our lives most often depend on the decisions we make. Frequently in life something may seem like a good idea at the time for many of us; but usually it isn’t. The consequences of those wrong decisions will ultimately come back to bite us in the end.

Injustice Files: Modern Day Lynching in the United States?

Last night after I returned from my Zumba class, I was ready to shower, cuddle up in the bed next to my husband, and watch something new and interesting on my favorite channel—Investigation Discovery. I was not expecting to witness this new show, however. It left me tossing and turning for a while before I finally drifted off to sleep.

HOT VIDEO: Do You "Co-Sign" This as a Comeback for SWV?

After disappearing off the R&B scene as a female trio for the past 15 years, they're now officially trying to make a comeback. Check out the classic group, SWV, and their new music video inside...

DATENIGHT FAB: Beyonce and Jay-Z Laugh It Up Courtside

Caught on camera, laughing and embracing each other, the Carter's decided to enjoy each others company sans Blue Ivy, courtside, at Monday night's Nets versus Knicks game...

Does Tip Harris's Status as an Ex-Felon Discredit Him as a "Good" Father?

Ok, so I was watching the most recent episode of T.I. and Tiny: The Family Hustle that aired on VH1, Monday night and I definitely have an opinion about this one...

HOT VIDEO: Tyrese feat. Chili "Nothing on You"

I love music videos that not only present beautiful art in its attractive imagery, but also convey a good message to its intended audience. The “Nothing on You” music video from Tyrese does this plus more…

HOT VIDEO: Kindred the Family Soul says be "Authentically You"

Fatin and Aja, also known to the world as Kindred the Family Soul or simply Kindred, is a married couple who embraces American R&B and soul music as a duo singing group.

Would Vanessa Bryant Reconciling with Kobe Bryant be a Bad Thing? I Think Not!

In recent news, Vanessa Bryant was photographed smooching with her ex-husband, Kobe Bryant after the Los Angeles Laker’s 86-78 victory over the Atlanta Hawks at the Staples Center.

Mary J. Blige and Beyonce Deliver a Lesson for the Men!

Mary J. Blige & Beyonce sing to us about how to "Love a Woman" and this song is right on time for this season of love.

Blue Ivy Carter: Beautiful and Blessed

It's not a secret to anyone close to me that I'm a huge fan of Beyonce and Jay Z. Not only do they each have great careers, but they have a solid long-lasting relationship with one another. To further put th
eir "love on top" they recently welcomed a beautiful baby girl, Blue Ivy Carter...

I Get So Emotional…Every Time I Think of You Whitney Houston

On February 11, 2012 we all lost a great remarkable and iconic singer and actress. This was stunning news for the music industry, but it was also very upsetting news for me personally. That’s because from this point on, every year on this particular day, not only will I be celebrating another year with my wonderful husband (our anniversary) but I will definitely remember that this is also the day we lost Whitney Houston…

Getting Back to Me....His Spoken Words

Hello, supporters of The Christian Chameleon!!!

I recently wrote a guest post for another awesome young lady who has an incredible and uplifting blog. She has this series going entitled, "Getting Back to Me" where she is featuring writers who share their triumphant story on how they essentially found their way back to who they truly are.

Click on this link, and take a look at the transparent post I wrote for Positively Shining blogspot. Hope you enjoy!

When Do You Need to Show Him Some Respect?



“Let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”

The instructions above taken from Ephesians 5:33 (NIV) are very enlightening and useful.  God makes it very clear in these words that not only are men supposed to love their wife, but the wives are supposed to respect their husband. Above all, a man desires respect just the same as a woman desires to be loved.

That Curse over Your Life is Broken: Are You Willing to Move On?

How many of you are scared of your future? Maybe because you’re afraid of your past coming back to perhaps wreck your life. I know many, like me, who come from a dysfunctional past, are relentlessly striving to change the present so that the future won’t be affected by varying generational curses. We all are striving to make our future better, some more than others. Some are simply trying to break those soul ties that bind us to who we were “back then.”

Thank God I'm Not God

Last week I had an especially long day at work. In law enforcement, I am often subjected to constant complaints from people that are over exaggerating in an effort to manipulate the system to their advantage. On this particular day I was witness to hours of this. So when I came home I was ready to unwind and get some rest. However, my son had different plans.

Revealing Truth about the REAL “King": It's Not Eddie Long!

I woke up this morning and scanned my Facebook and Twitter timelines as I normally do. It’s a great way for me to catch up on daily news and events that are currently happening. It is the way I found out about the suicide of the legendary Soul Train host, Don Cornelius (RIP), and it’s also the way I came across the basis for this article…

Lessons in Love: Is Marriage a Testing Ground?

“Marriage is one of the true testing grounds for what is in all of us.”

I came across this quote by Stormie Omartian while reading a great book dedicated to helping wives find power in prayer. I absolutely agree with her. I’m learning that marriage is a testing ground and guess what? I am determined to ace this test.